Hi Friends:
I hope your week is going well.
So, I can't find the original article, but recently I read a really interesting idea. Often, we have jars we set aside that we have to pay if we violate a rule: you know, put a dollar in the jar every time you smoke a cigarette, or put a quarter in a jar every time you use curse words. Sound familiar? You do this payment in an effort to break yourself of a bad habit.
Here's the interesting idea: putting money in the jar--rewarding yourself--every time you say something nice about yourself. I don't mean to go around bragging about yourself--but often, we are our own harshest critics. If you, say, forget your keys, instead of saying to yourself, "You are so absent minded. Get it together!" you can say, "Luckily, you are a creative thinker and can figure out how you're going to solve this one." Or, instead of saying, "You'll never get this right!" you can say, "It's all right; try again." Or, instead of saying, "You look bad/fat/tired/old/weird" when you look in the mirror, you can say, "You are beautiful, inside and out." I admit, some days it might be a lot of effort to do this tactic. ; )
And at the end of the month, you treat yourself to something really indulgent with the money in the jar. Hopefully you'll be able to buy yourself a massage and not a McDonald's ice cream cone.
Have a great week,
Meredith
